4.11.2007
shld a woman stay all so independent n not depend a single bit on guy? as in dere's oways stil a gap of independence in between.or
shld a woman rely on e guy for security n love? n go all out to love e man of ur life?
was in e nursery today n had a nice chat during our free tym on BGR w e gers.
stella kind of lyk enlighten me abit.
but yet stil sets me thinking.
1. i wuldnt sae dat love is not everything. i mean to me BGR love is not everything. but love is everything. love = frm frens, frm families n mayb even frm ppl whom u dunno. n love is a wonderful thing. w/o love i bet u cant even move on in life. cos i think love is very powerful. =)
2. i agree dat we gers shld not depend so much on guys. as in not total dependence. many things is unpredictable. ppl change w/o u noeing. early days of marriage can b all so lovely n happy w e guy giving in to e ger in almost everything. but in tym to cum, u neva noe wad its gonna b lyk.
3. upon seeing how r/s works out for some. those lovey doovey couples. cant help but envy deep down inside. its lyk talking bout not being independent on guys b4 tis. but now dat u imagine e scene of dat beautiful couple, doesnt it makes u wan to jus let go of everything n love for all u wan n b so deeply in love w ur their half?
i wuld say dat it shldnt b a total non-dependence thing.
woman r born to b at least a bit dependent on others isnt it?
mayb even men shld b.
n i believe dat a little dependence is smth good.
we r humans.
we aint any 4eva strong person.
however don b overly indpendent on others.
its impt to oways b prepared on rainy days dat u might b dump aside one day.
i mean u neva noe right?
many things don go as plan.
n so wad if its all so well planned.
it doesnt mean its gonna take place.
u cant predict e future can u?
for now,
jus hold on to wad u haf.
cherish everything n b happy for now.
start everyday afresh. (:
h-a-p-p-i-n-e-s-s is e key.
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